[Tomgs]

Well if you really want to be fair don't build anything at 90% of your planets most turns, never use other races to colonize planets that have the right atmosphere for them, never conquer another race, and never invade planets or capture ships. There has to be some limits on what we don't do just to make it "fair". Every game you play is unfair because the AI is playing it just like they did the first time without learning, so everything you learn about the game by repeated playing is unfair. Everyone has to set their own limits here.