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Old June 1st, 2003, 10:24 AM
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Default Re: (OT) Some advice for me / My Depression Thread / Thanks forumers

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Originally posted by Taera:
hmm, i am doing that - but soon i still run out of topics to talk.
You can always ask for more details, or for specific details. Also, it sometimes helps to have a list of topics hidden away in your wallet. A sample list (no particular order, far from exhaustive):
  • Work/School - co-workers/other students, employer/supervisor(s)/instructor(s), currently doing at
  • The weather - enjoying it, favorite temperature, enjoy thunderstorms
  • How did your day go / what's up / what have you been doing recently
  • Music - favorite song, artist, genre; recently heard tunes
  • Books - favorite story, author, genre; recently read books
  • Movies - favorite movie, performer (careful with this one! ), director; recently seen movies
  • Beliefs (Careful with this Category, but it is a must if you intend anything long term) - religion, politics, philosophy, specific issues
Note that with any such question, you will also want to ask "why?" in there somewhere. E.g.: If you ask "Do you like Bush being in the Oval Office?" you might get a yes/no response. However, if you follow that yes/no with "Any particular reason?" you are likely to get several sentences, at least.
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