Heh - you can hardly complain - life sounds pretty darn good by your list of things

(spare a thought for those of us who need 'family'

cars for the baby-seats)
As for Music - share you tastes. Eminem is truly a poet, and as a Sociologist/Cultural theorist his commentry on the world is fantastic. Try Mystral tide for dark wave/industrial/goth - He is an old school mate who I shared a pad with - and he is responsible for heading my music tastes down that road.
Mystral tide