[Monolith]

Before I stuck my head in the oven, you have to consider the women who frequent those sites. They are usually either lonely women with little social contact living their lives through television and Oprah, or they are the pretty but oh-so-shallow types who end up being sales reps for companies, marketing types, etc, and no one can meet the ideal image they have in mind. The nice girl down the street who likes you for your combination of faults and good attributes just isn't on these things. Don't give it a second thought. Most women, if you show them honest appreciation and make them feel a bit special (they all want to be treated like princesses to some degree) will overlook just about anything except for not appreciating them.