The only tech type mod (new components, technologies, etc) that you can use TDM AIs in is P&N Mod, but you first have to use SJ's converter program to make them compatible with the mod, which can be found on his website:
http://www.geocities.com/hohoho611ca/
You can use TDM AIs in various system/quadrant mods fine, such as Admiral's System Mod, Quad Mod, Krsqk System Mod, and Fyron's Quadrant Mod. You should also be able to use them in some "mount mods," such as Deathstalker's Mount Mod.