[Suicide Junkie]

I ask you what should I do? Play the game with BRG and try and get my $40.00 rebate and re0inbursment for my bank charges or dispute the cost of the Asylum FX 5700 entirely on my credit card on the grounds that they defrauded me out of my rebate?

If you do dispute the charge, it would be BestBuy getting hit. You should definitely talk to them so they know what's going on and can pass the buck, so to speak, on to BFG.