[tesco samoa]

i did...

Remember it is not a mistake... but a lession... do it twice its a mistake..

but there are some good lessons to learn here.

1. take the time that you two had together and think about all the good things that happened... Remember them.
2. take the time that stuff did not work out. remember them and in the future learn from them.

3. take the time that things fell apart and be glad it happened now. Not 10 or 20 years down the road...

4. Take the time now to not bother the other person. If you need to see them or talk to them. Do not do it. If you do randomly see them. Smile and say hello and thats it. If they ask how are things going. Say that your are ok. And repeat the question. Then say that it was nice to see you and tell them to have a nice day. Then carry on your day. Do not freak out. Do not say stuff that you do not mean. Do not say stuff that you do mean. Some times it is better to be a little indiffernt for respect for a person you once liked/loved.... Remeber they are feeling emotions as well. And it is better to not ruin all the time you spent together with the time that you did not spend together. It is a hard lesson to learn that one. But trust me on it. And this lesson will help you with future relationship break ups as well... I have seen a few people freak out... and just go all weird and I feel act a little scary. You must avoid that at all cost.

Other things such as do not talk about it all the time is a good one as well. Bring it up with your good friend. But keep it at that level. Any one else asks you about your previous partner. Speak nicely about them. Keep it short and keep it simple.

If your lucky you will have your heart broke a few times over the next few years. Most people are not that lucky to experience a few good relationships.

Good luck and enjoy your next relationship.

You will know if the next one is going to be better or worse based on your experence of this relationship... If it is worse. Bail.

If it is better. Build on it.

Learn. Enjoy. And most of always show respect to a person you once loved or still love. Even if you hate them for a while.

And make a great mix tape or mix cd right now with music on how your feeling... And keep it...

It is good for laughs later on...

I have a few... And listen to them every few years...

Brings a smile to my face every time...