Re: Rumor: Kerry & Edwards Want to Ban SEIV
Spanking should be allowed in the home, as long as it does not go overboard. It really doesn't hurt that much, and there is no permanent damage, so why shouldn't parents be allowed to smack them if they need it?? However, it should stop at a certain age, and be replaced by other punishments. I mean, I was spanked as a kid when i was far too old for it. It did not hurt, but was humiliating. I still bear a grudge against my dad for that. I will never forgive him for that. I don't even remember the original issue, but the memory still stings. If he tried to do it again, he'd end up with something broken.
When a kid is in their teens, there are better punishments. If they're like me, someone who spends many hours a day in front of the computer, then take the computer away, or at least threaten to. That's a great punishment. But be careful; when kids get older, they can punish their parents right back; just ask my parents. I can make their life hell if I feel like it, and they know it. It makes them more reasonable, and more likely to sympathize with my point of view.
So my point is, sure, corporal punishment works, at least for the first decade of the child's life. But after that, it is not necessary, and can be replaced by something more effective.
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