Throwing in Last little barbs to create a ruckus is as disagreeable as saying "You shouldn't play the game how you'd like and with who you'd like" and creating more of a contraversy.

I would hope that everyone would respect anyone's (In this instance Graeme's) game, both those participating and those not participating. And to understand that people may or may not want to play with others, for a variety of reasons. AND if you want to comment on any person, whatever justification, agree or disagree with them that you restrain yourself because of that respect.

And keep it at that from this point on. If you happen to not like anyone's comments, or decisions you should take them up in Private Messages.