*Boggle*...I am not buddy with the devs & neither are most of the posters, you are making unfair assumptions about the other posters that oppose your point & that doesn't help your side of the argument.
I don't know what kind of forums you have been before in, but as others have said the only way of having a debate is having people posting different points of view and adding arguments to back them.
I have reviewed the past answers you got and all of them were pretty polite and argumented, you might chose to ignore the points made and make it personal but it's not. Those Posts are just the opinions of people that disagree with you, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Would you prefer to be ignored? would you prefer a lie of the type 'we take note of your valuable contribution and will do our best about it'. I would rather prefer the honest opinions expressed in a polite way that you got.
Do not look for conspirations & old buddies clubs where there are none. I do not know most of the previous posters, and those I know, I do from facing each other in the battlefield and making each other's life difficult...hardly a love story.
If there's one thing I am glad about the Dom playerbase is the fact that it's very open to newcomers. When I started playing I did so by joining a group of players that already knew each other from a previous game, yet I was not particularly singled out & ganged on because of it, and was even granted my nation of choice. I have tried to act the same when I have been the one creating the game, and received no complaints on this instance to date.
Try MP with the established crew, they are all a pretty likeable bunch & you will be received with open arms. It's not a matter of us & you, so long as you do not make it so...there are no entry barriers here.