[Gandalf Parker]

I like dropouts. Ive often taken over for players that drop out. I highly recommend it especially for someone who feels too new to get into games.

You dont have to be embarrased since you are probably already in a bad spot. You arent expected to win but you can get the feel for multiplay (and you can still be a surprise). And alot of times its not even all that bad a spot. Only once do I remember slipping into a player spot and seeing myself really at the final battle. More often its early in the game. Someone attacked them "too soon", or they lost their god, or they see someone pulling ahead on the scoreboard so they figure the game is decided (a very bad assumption in this game).

But dont be afraid to jump in. The community is friendly. And having answers isnt the same in this game as being an expert player (personally I havent won one yet). Often newbies come up with some of the most surprising stuff. And even if you dont do well solo you might excell in MP since diplomacy is a big factor.

-- If you cant beat them, then join them.
If you cant beat them or join them, then at least surprise them.