Atrocities: We grow through our struggles. If everything was great and easy, we would all be soft and would not develop. Through our trials, we learn about ourselves and our abilities. If you consider those who have been through the most trials, such as orphans, you will see that overcoming lead to success.
You shoudl also consider something that can't be lost. If you find faith in Christ, you will have hope, and eternal life, which can't be taken from you.
