Sorry to hear about all this Slynky. I maybe only 18 and don't plan on marriage for a long time but i can certainly see why you would be angered by all this.
Normally I don't advocate too much revenge but I think you need to teach these people a lesson. Good Luck with your fight. Writing this out a Quote by Sheridan from B5 came to mind.
"Now, once we're in, we're in: no surrender, no retreat."
If that fails just threaten them by saying you have a Phased Polaron Beam Dreadnought about to glass their comapny HQ!
