Um, I think your statement needs a little more clarification Slynky. Ladies don’t think about having sex with strangers as much as men. In my experience girls like sex just as much as guys they just have more restraint. After ten years with my wife our sex life is still strong. I still find her very appealing but any guy who has been married will tell you that the appeal for his wife will drop off (sometimes a little others a lot) after a few years. If my wife is any indication ladies keep the desire level up year after year. Either that or I am just THE MAN!
Anyway R13 I stick with what I said, tell her but don’t put it in a manner were it sounds like you are actively (stress on actively) looking for more. Respect her and let her make the choice.