Fantasy and reality are parity states. Flipping occurs when totally bored.
According to the Keirsey Temperament Sorter II, I am now a " Rational".
According to the Personality Type Test, I am now a "Conceiver".
If you are stuck on "revenge", Space Empires IV is the "cure"! Far cheaper than psychology too...
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Get some philosophy... http://marsh.logical.net/master.htm http://dictionary.com/
If you spend fantasy beyond your means, then your means will spend you into reality.... http://www.nd.edu/~archives/latgramm.htm
Ipse Ergo Sum.