I play (and admin some) on Shazzy's Shard. A husband and wife team (he admins and she is the programmer). Its nice and adult with almost no support for PvP at all. The numbers dropped due to a gap while they moved but usually its just enough players to keep an economy going and get up groups to do some champions, but not so many that you cant have a house in the wilderness and have it actually BE wilderness instead of looking like some suburb. Oh yeah, and like most games I like, I host the site for free
www.ShazzyShard.org
DnD-O was OK. It was sone well enough but basically the same complaint as I had with City of Heroes. Lots of work put into the game but then they dropped it on the quests. There is only so many times I can stand doing the same thing over and over. If they had put less work into the graphics and effects, and more into quests Id be happier. Like Diablo II which is quick to get into, lets me run other things at the same time to flip back and forth, and is free to play.. then I pop it up sometimes for a change the way I do D-II