[Fate]

It was mentioned elseware, but I think it is really true. You have to get used to losing if you want to learn. This game is really random (most all "checks" involve a random number, and at least 8d6+, or open ended 6 sided dice, are rolled each round of melee between 2 units). You're great, ubeatable armies will be beaten, and you might get scot lucky a couple times.

Still, you can influence the outcome of battles significantly, and the game is very enjoyable. Just don't feel bad about restarting.