[Twan]

I think a dismiss option isn't a good idea. It would change far too many things affecting balance (importance of afflictions, starving, diseases, aging, summons not asking for money, ability to reorganize your empire when you have a new war to deal with).

If something is to be changed to reduce the "lack of dismiss button feeling" I think it's events (ie : no event giving troops without a leader, far less militia events, more events giving average/good troops or troops not asking for money instead).