On an unrelated topic, I am a bit relieved to hear you say that. I'm still a bit ashamed of the message I sent you a few months back when I too was under stress. It wasn't personal I know but it did teach me to perhaps sleep on things before I answer straight away. Anyhow I just thought I'd mention that.
Edit: hey and let me just say we think alike
I am also a bit wary of advice from players in games where they might be an enemy. I had one game where I refused to lsiten to advice another player gave the group on the basis that he was an enemy. Later I read it, and followed some of it, after my alliance told me to.