I think saying someone is a liar when he actually was lying is offensive.. it's the truth and a reaction the deserved.. I think they are whining about getting offended when I'm just saying what happend.
If you lie do not whine about getting called a liar.
Seems easy to me, seems normal to me too. If that is wrong in someones oppinion then those persons are hypocrites I'd say

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