Dog piling is absolutely part of the game; so is having the dog-pilee get pissed-off 
I dislike the spin and dishonorable dealings I feel I have experienced from Bandar.  Losing is fine; i've lost many a game (mostly to Norfleet 

).  I don't like the double-dealing, the propaganda, and the mendacity. 
let us compare the "i'm just ending the NAP to keep options open," " I am only annulling our non aggression pact. That's a far cry from an attack; It is your conclusion alone that that it would result in a 'dogpile'."
with the private diplomatic undertakings that Jurri has made with Mari and R'lyeh.