Zeldor,
You are a great diplomate, and the way you present yourself as the underdog is admirable
Yet, I think some of your estimates are not quite accurate:
Provinces:
1. Shinu
2. Abysia
Forts:
1. TC
2. Shinu
3. Abysia
Income:
1. TC/Shinu
2. TC/Shinu
3. Abysia
Gem Income:
1. TC (your global enchantments alone put you far in the lead. Not fighting an active war allows you to stack up too)
Army size:
1. TC
2. Shinu
3. Abysia
Concluding, it still looks pretty close among us three. If anything, TC is the overall nr 1 at this moment, although none of us is a necessary winner at this point.