In the multiplayer subforum is some requests for someone to sub in a game. I think its a perfect situation for someone who is thinking about trying multiplayer.
Its a chance to see how the game operates in an MP game. But you dont have to worry about embarrasing yourself. If you lose you can always put the blame on "it wasnt my pretender and build"
And, you are in a great position to try crazy things. You might surprise them.
(Edit: llamabeast changed "mod" to "game" in the title, hope that wasn't rude.)