[HoneyBadger]

But the point is, I can argue something, and the argument I'm trying to make can be criticised, and I can take that impersonally enough to deal with it, rather than feeling that it is a personal attack on myself and my integrity. I can be judged "wrong" without my integrity as a person called into question. In other words, an argument can be debated, even heatedly, without resorting to gunfire, if we maintain our cool.