I've looked at game setup on Llamaserver and I'm happy with how the interface works.  Before I start the game up, though, I want to be sure of the settings we'll be using.
I suggest a VP vctory.  Looking at Edi's advice, if I let each capital be 1VP in addition to the 100 on the map, then a 45 VP victory might be about right.
I have sympathy for the idea of difficult research as it's quite a large game on a large map.  However, there's only been one voice asking for it so far - I'd need to see more people supporting difficult research before I impose it.  
Basically, speak now and you will be heard.
NAP-wise, this will 
not be a Machiavellian game.  Picking up on CBM is enough to be thinking about, without the distraction of mistrusting all your neighbours and trade partners.
The Faerun map is 
here - the same link is in the top post.
CBM is 
here - link also in the top post.