I know
new job new girlfriend lots of school work and I just can't keep up. I see "oh, need to do my turn in two hours, I'll do it just as soon as I finish this thing"
then I forget and two hours go by. I never seem to have the time anymore...
I am being invaded though. I'd like to keep playing just so Mari doesn't get a free pass to all my lands

If I can't stop staling though I'll set myself to AI.