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"Agree but it should not happen really if something crops up sending your opponent a message to say delayed costs nothing. Same with if you have had enough of the game just offer to surrender or say something most players seem pretty reasonable."

Sometimes that just isn't possible. Last year I went to court with my lawyer telling me every_tang was OK and I would get max 30 days time served and some community service. An Hour later I was sitting in the van with cuffs on contemplating 3 to 5 years in Jail. No computer between court and Jail. I looked.
So as much or as little as we want, sometimes things spin out of control.