[GrudgeBringer]

Yes usually you negotiate by PM but register it in the Forum...

Say Sauro and Lanka form a 3 turn Nap or 5 turn or 100 turn though 3 turn is standard).

That way when you want to break it you just go to the forum and say" Sauro gives notice on turn 23 that the Nap with lanks is broken. Hostilities will begin on turn 26 (if you DON"T cout the turn you break it oR turn 25 if you DO count the turn you break it.

That way there is no doubt in anyones mind and no arguments that someone jumped the gun...

Now thats in a BINDING diplomacy game.

In a non binding you can do it any way you want (but I promise you ther ewill be pages of yelling aback and forth (LOL), which is what you asked for!!