Well, I really cannot judge the situation. I am not impressed with all that Ermor threat, but surely I am way less vulnerable now than few turns ago. I lost a lot of provs to Marignon when he attacked me [I was stretched out, no armies nearby, no Rigor Mortis].
You are telling that people don't want to help Marignon fight me. But why would they want to help Marignon win? He has artifacts, elemantal royalty, unique summons, bloodhunting, research, etc. So someone would have to help him do tough war against me, just to get attacked by Marignon later?
P.S. Just looked at score graphs, it looks a bit more in my favor, I will admit that. 43 forts and more troops that other players combined.