wriathlord, from what i have seen and heard, i have serious reservations about the manner of your win. To my feeling, the issue of proximateness is relevant, helping someone in general is one thing. Literally giving the win condition (from your own supply rather than helping them take it from enemies) is another.
However i haven't heard your case in as much detail and length as I would like.
I propose this solution to this dispute: you both agree on a selection of 3 veteran players to be a tribunal and decide this matter. Agreeing to binding arbitration would allow this to be settled, as sedttling between yourselves is obviously not working.
Zlefin
