[Burnsaber]

If you are leading the province graph by a wide margin, then you have overexpanded, since you now have that "Gank Me!" sign on your head. It is to be noted that underexpanding is just as lethal. I'd say that it is best to be the second best.

But it also depends on the situation. If many of your neighbours get into early wars/rushes with another parties, they probably won't be there to gank you -> allowing you to expand a bit more freely.