I was actually just about to post about this. We're in danger of turning into the slowest four person game in Dominions history.
I've certainly had my share of turns where I was the last one in - and really for no reason since I'm at peace!
Actually, you confirmed my suspicion that we're all at peace. Note that I didn't actually know for sure if the two of you were at war since I've never played with two such patrol happy players! My scouts have an average life expectancy of about 3 months. I've been setting black hawks to patrolling just to give you two a taste of your own medicine.
I think if we're going to continue we do need to pickup the pace. Even a 72 hour hosting interval would be ok - at least we'd get in two turns a week.