Well, it might take us a while to find an alternate (this game is a kind of special format and all). Besides, it would suck to have to replace you like that.
If you're game, maybe we can tinker a little more? I'm sorry you're frustrated (totally understandable) and I know you're not big into mods, but one test would be, can you successfully install other mods?
CBM1.6
http://forum.shrapnelgames.com/showthread.php?t=43949
EDM1.1
http://forum.shrapnelgames.com/showthread.php?t=45056