I think we agreed that it's not ideal, and that some situations are happier afterward than before. It would be much nicer if it weren't necessary, or if there were more protections to hold using creeps liable for dumping a woman without support the minute they're done with them.
"Can't we all just get along?" (said in a laughably pitiful pleading voice)
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"Well, sir, at the moment my left processor doesn't know what my right is doing." -
Freefall