Personally, I've just made PD weapons unable to hit fighters. That way fighters have to be taken out by normal weapons. In my tests so far, it works great. Fighters are a threat again, but not so powerful that they're overwhelming. In fact, I'm still thinking about raising the defense of the fighter hulls even more.
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