ok now it works.. now I have one more question.. how do you remove a neighbour (wrong click) with out having to redo everything.. I'm 100% sure I'll not succeed 330 provs w/o any error.. and I can't seem to delete a wrong neighbourship.
(the auto thingie went completely worng about every prov in a 2-3 prov radius was flagged.. but I'll do it by hand.. IF I know how to remove the errors I make)
OK CTRL missed that somehow (I hate manuals, but I admit I should read the manual and forums and everything a bit better before I ask here..) Still a thing like I ask about in my next post WOULD be nice

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