How Do I Start A PBW Game????

[Tnarg]

Ok, so we actually go into a game like we are setting up a game we are playing by ourselves. Set up the quadrant, events, player settings, create a race, set victory conditions, computer players, etc, etc. Then on that Last section, the part where it asks for simultanues, TCP/IP, etc, etc. We fill all of that out, save the game to a specific file???, and then when we're accepted, we just send that file. Am I missing something? Help, so much of that begginner confusion and anxioty.

Thanks.