OT: new computer for eldest daughter

[Wardad]

My computer crashed Last week.

I think my History Kill privacy program (and popup stopper) attacked my Norton Internet Security program.

I usually power off not log off, but it was late and I choose to log off instead. Of course I stopped and canceled (win98), and the system started to setup Start Menu and the bar programs again. That is when History kill attacked. I could never get norton to work right again, and I could not delete it either.

To be fair, I can say that after 4~5 years, Win98 may not have been perfectly stable on boot up. Maybe, I should have taken the time to exempt the Norton cookies from History Kill.

So I partioned and reformated my hard drive. I now have a small 5GB partion for the operating system and security programs. It won't be such a hassle or loss next time I have to reinstall the operating system or security programs.

[ November 11, 2003, 23:23: Message edited by: Wardad ]

[Mephisto]

Originally posted by Roanon:
Yes, I know the american point of view that it is perfectly safe to let children play with guns but that the sight of a naked breast will ruin their whole life, but this should be less of an issue with a daughter.

The mother of a friend of mine was during her childhood in a "girls only school". One of the other girls was very shy and put blankets around her bed before she would undress so no one would see her naked, even partially. Must have been quite an act every evening. Anyway, one day said mother took the shy girl and told her: "Listen, what I can see on you I can touch on me, so cut the bull****." I found this very amusing.

[Roanon]

Originally posted by SpaceBadger:
I still have the internet access problem to deal with eventually

You cannot "protect" your daughter from the outside world till she dies of old age . She already has contact to it without your supervision (school, friends) and you probably do not worry about it that much. So - what exactly are you worried about that she might see or read what you do not wish in the internet? Yes, I know the american point of view that it is perfectly safe to let children play with guns but that the sight of a naked breast will ruin their whole life, but this should be less of an issue with a daughter

I would be more worried about restricting the time spent on the internet, we all know how addictive things like gaming, chatting, etc. can be... and it is even easier for a child to loose the real-world contact that way.

If there are specific things on the internet that you do not like or fear, maybe try just telling her what you would not like, and show her what not to do and why and where dangers are. Most important in my opionis is, though, to be available for her if she want to talk about something. Ruatha's "post-police" idea is good, especially in the beginning, but I think, at some point, there should be trust and respect of her privacy.