Uhm, a couple of things, hunt11:
You didn't attach the map to your post. But that's not so important because you can't use this map for the game anyway. The file you sent me has 1200 provinces. That's enough for 60-80 players, but way too much for 10-15 players. How long did it take you to generate this thing? Knowing the Dom3 random map generator I wouldn't be surprised if this took several hours.
It's good for showing how flawed the neighbor-finding algorithm in Dom3 is, though.
Unless you want to use a randomly generated map, you could take a look at the Wiki at
http://dom3maps.wikidot.com/ to find a good map for this game.