Play whatever is fun I would say. But depends on were you want to go. Personally I would suggest playing standard first. The differences between say standard and Proportions are quite significant. So if you start off playing Proportions and then go into a multi standard game you are gonna get smoked.
Immediate AI upgrade with TDM makes perfect sense - what is the reason to play against inferior opponents ?
An old Version of Proportions (as on CD) had very bad AIs. Upgrade it to 2.42 and it will be OK for single play.
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Hmmm.. okay, I'll display my ignorance and incompetence by asking how do you use SJ's AI patcher to convert the TDM into P&N. I've tried to figure it out from the instructions, honest, but I just couldn't get it to work.
Harder (AI) opponents would be great!
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