All the posts here pretty much say the same thing, only put into different words. (Same thing, only different)
If you maintain high standards (not elitist), you will attract decent people to this site. Wether they come here to find out about SE, Shrapnel Games or to post a question or just a thought, AND like SJ says if they aren't happy here they will move on.
All I can say is that everyone posting on this thread is very interested in keeping this site an open and friendly forum for themselves and other. You can't hold that against anyone in trying to keep something good alive. Sometimes a thread like this should remind us all of what is here (as compared to the OTHER) and to appreciate that!!!