OT (Poll) - LOVE

[President_Elect_Shang]

Ten years for my wife and I and it does take constant maintenance.

I faced the “what if” about three years ago, it only got as far as one kiss (I didn’t initiate the kiss she did) but at that very moment I realized that my wife was the only woman who loved me the way a person should be loved. The truth is no matter how much you love someone you will continue to look at others so don’t feel guilty. Just try to remember that one night of sex will never justify destroying years of love.

[Slynky]

Amen, PES. I think it's wonderful your wife has stayed with you through all those political years even though you've never attained office yet .

[President_Elect_Shang]

That woman is just waiting for me to get voted into office so she can hang around the cute young body guards! That and she wants the “No Limit” credit cards!

[Slynky]

President_Elect_Shang said:
That woman is just waiting for me to get voted into office so she can hang around the cute young body guards! That and she wants the “No Limit” credit cards!

LOL

[Slynky]

A lot of good Messages and things to remember being mentioned in this thread. A lot from people who have been married quite a while.

And one from Tesco...about the first big hurt. You see, I remember being 19 and sitting in the woods on a creek bank in NC with a rifle in my mouth. I wanted to die because of hurt and I wanted her to know how much she hurt me. Then some sense set in as I realized I'd never "see" her pain because, well, I'd be dead. Then, I realized nothing was worth taking my life for. ANd though things seemed terrible then, I'm so glad I made the choice I did and have so many things to appreciate in life.

Others never recover and we read about them on page 6 at the bottom of the page. That is truly a waste!

[President_Elect_Shang]

I remember my first broken heart and I remember her face, name, eyes, lips, EVERYTHING! I also remember that if it had not been for her and the broken heart she gave me I would not have become the man that won my wife’s attention. So thanks D, I still hate your guts but I thank you for helping me to see I was nothing but an immature kid.

You will always get over the pain and look back at how much it really helped you to grow.

[Renegade 13]

Slynky said:
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And one from Tesco...about the first big hurt. You see, I remember being 19 and sitting in the woods on a creek bank in NC with a rifle in my mouth.
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Unfortunately, I think a lot of us have been in that same position at one time or another.

[tesco samoa]

6 years for me.

Rg13.... You will know your first love when you understand what it is to truely hate that person for a while.

For you can not hate someone until you have loved them very much.

After time you release that they are the same. If your lucky and move on.

Oh the first truely broken heart. Good luck man. It really hurts. Hopefully you experience this in your early twenties not when your at middle age.

It will help you with your life long partner. As you will not be such a stubborn *** and release that you love someone very much and need to show it every day.

It can be as simple as a brush of two hands. But when you are both in love the meaning is there.

it is a hard thing to have two people at the same level....

I do believe those who truely love each other know this and make it through the times when the sine waves are not over lapping but at opposites.

P.S. Find some one who has passion in something. Make sure it is not what you have a passion in. And learn that passion it is a great adventure.