thats exactly the point... I am playing with people right there... no offense but im not a play by email'er I like playing with tcp/ip options and such, all there right then, while we chat ect.
Have you tried the Ultimate Strategies Mod? It adds a lot of new strategies you can assign to your fleets so they at least do interesting things in combat It's available at http://www.spaceempires.net.
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ehh i guess ill give it a try... i was hoping for some way to actually get into the tactical side of things... Thats my favorite part of the game and the one part I cant seem to bring to multiplayer
getting your ships to do what you want in strategical combat is a challenge, but it's a double edged sword, what is your disadvantage is also your advantage, if you know what you're doing.
It takes a lot of experimenting (preferrably not in the combat simulator, but anything is better than nothing) to make it work.