Chaps,
Might I suggest you join one of the established wargaming clubs? There, you will readily find opponents for PBEM.
Try here:
http://www.strategyzoneonline.com/fo...isplay.php?f=7
or here:
http://www.theblitz.org/message_boar...lay.php?fid=14
You'll be made welcome. If you don't want your games to be recorded on the ladders, that's OK. Just advise your Opponents when agreeing the parameters of the Game.
Have fun!