Newbie question

[Redeyes]

The Llamaserver is for play by email games.
Doesn't sound like that's what you are looking for.

Page 32 of the manual tells you everything you should need to setup a multiplayer game.

http://whatismyip.com/
Have your friend connect to the ip adress shown there

Haven't heard about red screens, but I haven't tried many tcp/ip games to be honest.

[Incabulos]

I think Gandalf Parker has servers for hosting blitz style, connect to Ip games, but as Redeyes said Llamaserver is purely play by email