Advise

DirectorTsaarx · #1 November 14th, 2002, 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kamog:
Dear mlmbd ,

How do you answer this question? A girl asks you, "Do you notice anything different about me today?" You look at her, and you don't notice anything at all that's different from usual. She probably did something with her hair or got new shoelaces or something, but if you guess wrong, you're in big trouble! If you say you don't know, you're in big trouble! What do you do?

First, I (partially) agree with mlmbd's answer - if she had to ask, you're probably already in trouble. HOWEVER, the fact that she DID ask means she's giving you a second chance. This probably means you're on the GOOD ladder (thanks for posting the ladder theory link, dead meat). And, not only are you on the good ladder, you are probably at least as high on her ladder as she is on yours; possibly higher (or, in ladder theory language, you are at least equal and possibly in a position of power). All of which means you should definitely say something complimentary; perhaps along the lines of "your beauty is so distracting I can't tell what's different". You'll either get slapped for the cheesy line, or you'll get lucky. The chance of getting lucky is (usually)worth the risk of getting slapped.

BTW - I take no responsibility for any pain, injury or suffering resulting from following the above advice. Use at your own risk.

Did I use enough boldface, italics and bold italics to acheive the right level of credibility for this thread?

Gryphin · #2 November 14th, 2002, 06:17 PM

The sucsess of DirectorTsaarx's answer is directly related to how sincerely you can deliver that um, er, balony. With just the right tone inflection and inocent look you will get lucky and not slapped. (unless you want to be slapped but I'm not going there).

Elowan · #3 November 14th, 2002, 06:42 PM

Advice from an old goat:

You are always wrong.

Start with that premise and you can never go wrong. Woman love to forgive a man. Who cares if you're right in any event? Give your ego a rest.

The corollary to the above is the answer to the question:

Would you rather be right or married?

mlmbd · #4 November 14th, 2002, 08:03 PM

To ALL;

Let's face it the LADDER, is a theory nothing more!! It maybe an Icon to some. To others it's just bunk. So, I will grant you your rights to worship anything you wish. We are just going to have to agree, that we disagree. I am never going to change your minds. And you will certainly never change mine.

ELOWAN is correct. You are always wrong.

DirectorTsaarx, if the amount of boldface, italics and bold italics makes you happy, then you used the right amount!!

Gryphin, realty is always welcome here. As far as I am concerned!!

mlmbd

Wardad · #5 November 14th, 2002, 08:35 PM

If during a family argument it turns out that you are right... APOLOGIZE IMMEDIATLY!!!

Kamog · #6 November 15th, 2002, 06:54 AM

Thanks for the advice! Your words are wise. It IS very important to be sincere, caring, and honest in a relationship.

Just in case I need it, I'll have to practise the innocent look and inflection in the mirror until I get it right. However, I'm not going to step on a girl's foot to try to make a first impression, I just don't think that's a nice thing to do!

Quote:
"You are always wrong."

corollary: The woman is always right.

Gryphin · #7 November 16th, 2002, 02:24 AM

Guys, I'm not an expert by any means but I must be doing something right. While I was still looking around for someone permanent I always told all of my dates about the existance of all of my dates. Eventualy I ended up going on dates with 2 of them at the same time. They were so apriciative of being told the truth that they felt dating that way was better. The rule that I soon discoverd:
If I like someone, anyone else I like will like them. My dates always hit it off and a good time was had by all.
My sweetheart who moved in after a month wants to find another woman to move in with us. She really liked the chemistry of the "Triple Date".
I am not making this up.
The key is:
Open Honesty, Sincere Caring, Backing up claims of love with action such as taking out the garbage, picking up your dirty cloths, and putting the seat down. It does not hurt to bring home a rose or two but that does not count as much as the above.