Re: Advise
Um, in my case, I was the one dumped when she got done with me.
I don't think it is gender specific.
Beyond that a lot of people who tryed to consol me talked ahout the origens of marriage and its purpose.
< Again, I have no data to back this up. It is more of speculation >
The ideas that were talked about were along the lines of:
1) Marriage < in what ever form it takes / took > Is for the rearring of children. Once that is achieved it is no longer nessasary.
2) When a human life span was 40 to 60 years there was less chance you would grow apart
3) It has also been suggested that that there are so many more aspects to life that we continue to grow / change / develop in so many more ways. It makes sence that two people would "grow appart".
Food for thought.
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