OT POLL: Do Nice Guys Finish Last??

[Taera]

Interesting discussion. Lemme add my own thoughts.

Nice guys do finish Last, when it comes to a relationship. But what is Last? Later than all the school "winners"? Well, its Last by their list. Do you realy care?

I've known different people. I've known the "winners"/*******s, and nice guys (am one). I've also known the "too hot for my own good" girls and the nice girls.

Winners go for the hot and instinct. Nice guys think and wait. Me, am a good example, i believe. I watched peope date in gr.8 and gr.10. I decided that I should find someone too. It was a mental struggle, because initially i of course was attracted to the "hot" girls. Well, so bad, as i discovered a total lack of any personality worth a mention.

I dont know about all, but about me, and other "nice guys" i know, nice guys are picky. We dont choose the obvious, we go for the pearls. And, believe it or not, there are girls who think the same way as you do. Physical doesnt always declare the mindset of a girl.

Sure, you dont get to date that hot girl in your english class. But do you realy want a person with whom you wont be able to hold even a 15-minutes conversation on something besides her interests?

Now, an interesting observation from a maturing mind. I am currently in a relationship, and im reflecting on my past years. I was _NOT_ ready for this before. Then its a good thing it waited, no?

Nice guys finish Last. So said the "bad" guys, by their scale. Do you care? Nice guys work their way throughouthly and get the truly marvelous results.

Okay, its late, i should go sleep. If above doesnt make sense, I blame mrs. Time.

[Renegade 13]

Haha so Geo you have the "...and no one gets out alive" attitude eh? Sounds fair. And good advice. From all of you.

***Hey, what do you know? This makes 600 Posts since September 2003!!***